Tuesday, 8 January 2013

Apples of Gold

 

 
I sat my grocery basket down in the supermarket, at I was choosing these apples yesterday. I found 8 round, nice and fresh Pink Lady apples, and I sat them down to the grocery basket, and went on.
 
As I was standing in the que to pay for my groceries, a smiling lady came to me and said "I'm sorry to disturb you, but you seem to have mistaken with your grocery basket ... You are carrying the basket with my groceries!"
 
I looked down to the basket and was surprised ... under the apples was not my zucchini nor the bread I had chosen, but a milk and other things, I hadn't put down! I said to her that I was so sorry - that I must have picked her basket up after choosing the apples! The lady smiled to me kindly and said that everything was fine - it was better to swop the baskets now, before paying for the groceries. She kindly showed me the way to my own grocery basket - it was standing by the fruit section, under the apples.
 
I'm thankful for the kind lady that she came to me and pointed out, that I was carrying her basket ... instead of maybe thinking that "How odd - that woman is carrying my grocery basket without even noticing, that it isn't hers?!"
 
So I totally agree, that

 
A word fitly spoken is like
apples of gold
in a setting of silver.
 
Proverbs 25:11
 
 
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Saturday, 5 January 2013

A Light in the Heart




You make known to me the path of life;
you will fill me with joy in your presence,
with eternal pleasures at your right hand.


Psalm 16:11





Friday, 4 January 2013

About plants, books and communication



The succulents at my office were doing fine even though they were 2 weeks without water - they're lovely plants to keep! I'm not very good at keeping flowers or plants, but plants with waxy leaves seems to be very grateful plants, as they survive in my care.

I got the succulent in the upper picture about 1,5 years ago - it was about a size of a tea cup, round and sweet. It started to grow in height this summer, and has also made another little plant / branch ... I wonder if I dare to separate the little plant from the bigger and put it into a separate pot?

The plant below is all ready 15 years old - it has survived longer periods of time without water, so it is a fighter - I like it and hope that it will keep growing. The stem of this older plant is getting thicker, starting to look like a real tree.



I'm fond of the little statue in front of the plant. I got it from a good friend of mine, when I graduated. The way the persons relate to one another is very symbolic - it might represent a mother and a child, an adult and a child, and older and younger person ... What stands out for me in the statue is the connectedness between the persons... a relationship with closeness and intimacy.

I've chosen to keep this statue in my office, reminding me of the importance of being related and connected - as oftentimes, the process of being  (re)connected - to oneself, to an ability, to another person, to a wish or a dream, to a group or another system, is one of the areas in focus.



I look forward of starting to read these books in the weekend. They're about interpersonal communication ... I'm reading to refresh the old things and to learn new things - to a project at work, that we're planning together with a colleague. I'm waiting for a few books from the library ... and ordered two books from the Amazon this afternoon ... the feeling of being motivated and captured by the process almost tickles in my stomach (in a good way :)

If you come to think about a a good book or article you've come across, and if you like to share it with me, please write a comment on this post or to the mail on the right sidebar.

Communicating - finding the right word to form your thoughts with - is sometimes a challenge itself. Another thing is, how are the words, you form, being received? How does the other person(s) understand the message, you're trying to get across?

I like how S.T. Elliot is describing the process of finding the right words:

Trying to use words, and every attempt
Is a wholly new start, and a different kind of failure
Because one has only learnt to get the better of words
For the thing one no longer has to say, or the way in which
One is no longer disposed to say it. And so each venture
Is a new beginning, a raid on the inarticulate
With shabby equipment always deteriorating
In the general mess of imprecision of feeling,
Undisciplined squads of emotion.

S.T. Elliot from ”The Four Quarters”


Another quote from Mikhail Bakhtins thoughts about language, 
words and utterances as voices, creating anew:

“An utterance 
is never just a reflection or an expression 
of something already existing and outside it 
that is given and final. 
It always creates something 
that never existed before, 
something absolutely new and unrepeatable, 
and, moreover, 
it always has some relation to value 
(the true, the good, the beautiful, and so forth). 
But something created is always created out of something given 
(language, 
an observed phenomenon of reality, 
an experienced feeling, 
the speaking subject himself, 
something finalized in his world view, 
and so forth). 
What is given 
is completely transformed in 
what is created” 

Bakhtin (1986)



... So this weekend I'll be reading and taking notes - and drinking many cups of tea!


The view below is from this morning. It was raining a bit as I was driving to work, and all of a sudden the clouds broke and the sun appeared. I stopped the car and stepped out to take a picture. I enjoyed the  moment, taking deep breaths of the fresh air, letting my eyes rest on the trees and fields ...

... With these thoughts & images 
I'm wishing you 
a great weekend!

Nina






Wednesday, 2 January 2013

Moments to cherish




"Somebody's knocking at the door...?!"











Traditional Christmas Rise-porridge with Prune-Raisin-custard.





Making truffles and sweets of marzipan and nougat.


















The temperature fell finally to -5, so we could try slalom skiing.

































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Tuesday, 1 January 2013

Happy New Year 2013



As I was making tea in the morning I realised that I started this year by making tea instead of coffee. I started to drink tea without any major decisions - After a stomach flu in April the coffee didn't just taste like before. So I have been drinking tea for more than half a year now (once in a while I drink a latte, when occasioanlly in a cafe with friend :)

A couple of years ago in January my aim for the coming year  was to reduce my consumption of coffee, but it really didn't work - now it has happened, all by itself, without any hassle.




I haven't made any New Year's resolutions for this coming year. I have instead reflected upon the year 2012: The highlights, the low valleys, the sweet simple things of everyday life - all kinds of moments, the year has included ...

We all have our joys and sorrows in the everyday life, that are taking us forward as well as challenging us. We do not always understand why this luck or challenge has fallen upon us  {why me / my family} often the answer cannot be found - but both things are a part of life and living.

If there is someone, with whom we can share the joys and sorrows, it doubles our joys, and in some ways also lightens the sorrows. I've been sending thankful prayers - for having these persons, with whom the daily issues can be shared, and also about being able to be in a position of both giving and receiving.

I found the pictures below from the Pinterest. They are in some ways rich in hope, and underline the importance of where we set our focus ...






I might as well add one more: The things you don't finish today, will be there tomorrow - the world will most likely not go under, even if we fail to finish all the chores and things we'd planned for today.

A funny little note to this: There was no room in my tummy for desert yesterday - so I had the chocolate mousse for breakfast today :-)




I'm so happy for all the nice greetings, you've left here on the blog, as well as for all the new friends and acquaintances, I've made since August, when I started this blog.

I wish you all the best for the coming year
 - a bunch of enriching experiences, as well as moments when nothing happens
(someone wise has once said that to be bored every now and then is healthy :)



These words from my favourite verse from the Old Testament
are encouraging and suit well in the beginning of this
New Year 2013:
 
For I know the plans I have for you,”
declares the Lord,
“plans to prosper you and not to harm you,
plans to give you hope and a future.
 
Jeremiah 29:11
 
 
 
ps: One thing I'm really happy for is that I'm beginning to learn how to use textures in pictures!
The textures I've used in these pictures are from Kim Klassens Cafe.

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